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Muffin

Melting Hugs

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Michael

Today Carly Elizabeth it officially eighteen months young. Yes, the brain grows more the first year than any other time. The density of possible connections are two to three times that of an adult. What does that mean? Muffins on ...

Not easy

No! It Is Not Easy

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Michael

Love transforms effort and attention into near constant nurturing, and nurturing is a transformative practice. Years ago Joseph Chilton Pearce described how all learning in the early years involves movement and, at seventeen months, Carly Elizabeth is in near perpetual ...

Everyday miricals

Carly’s Second Christmas

By
Michael

Carly is changing, and fast. She is beginning to talk to herself, not with words but with sounds and babble-phrases that will soon be sentences. Until very recently she needed play-learning experiences to be initiated. Now, at sixteen months and ...

Trust and happiness

Trust and Happiness

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Michael

It is impossible for adults, adulterated as they are, to participate fully in the young child’s reality. This evening we had a lovely adulterated dinner. We shared a glass of wine and chatted about, you know, things. Carly at fifteen ...

Blind leading

The Blind Leading the Blind

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Michael

Normal isn’t necessarily healthy or natural,or the road to hell is paved with good intentions. It is so much more demanding for parents not to substitute virtual for real experiences; no wonder a recent essay applauded the American Academy of ...

Everything matters

Every Moment Matters

By
Michael

Every moment matters, especially the early formative moments. There is no ‘down time,’ no ‘get out of jail free.’ This is the moment. Who and what we are is defined by how we live this split second. Don’t miss it. ...